I got your wink/invitation/mail.... did you EVEN read my profile
Do we not check off certain qualities in the kinds of people
we are looking for? Do we not set certain boundaries and
restrictions; such as distance, age, etc?
I respond to EVERY inquiry.... so it does irritate me a little
when I'm holding up my end of the deal and staring yet
another message with Hi there. I got your wink/invitation/mail
(whatever).... Thank you for the interest. I assume you
read my wordy profile, so thank you for thaking the time.
However you must have missed where it said I'm NOT looking
for....[ married / couples / someone 500 miles away...
etc]
I'm not referring to someone a few years outside of
the age preferences or a few miles outside of the distance
boundaries... I'm referring to people who have obviously
NOT read what matched and what doesn't!
I'm single looking for a SINGLE person of the OPPOSITE
sex who is somewhat near me and specify NO 'no strings
fun'. Yet... the above response is written many times
a week to married men/couples or to single men I would have
to drive four days to get to or to people who want to meet tomorrow
for a sex lunch.
If you aren't READING the profiles of the people you
are winking at or inviting into your network - you're
an idiot. Sinc;e you are probably not an actual idiot
by definition... you're just not paying attention.
READ, weigh the similarities, THEN contact.
Or AT LEAST
send a message (vs. one of the no actual words involved options)
and IN your message, express why you're interested
and give that person some clue to respond to!!