Teasing?<--one thought
To Lita's article about teasing .
Well did you ask your partner wether he likes it or not ? I
bet that would annoye a man or boy a little and I would tease
the hell out of mine , trust me , and I expect him to grab
me an try to wrestle me down once it is too much .And if he minds
, let him think of a way how to close your mouth.
Should he mention again that you are a bit too wet and you
still are allowing it , tell me why please .Your body works
and obviously reacts when he is near you-->shame on
you, no really .Why not say Congratulations-you
did that.And smile!There is a reason for the existens
of his weak or low teasing-tolerance or we
wouldn't have brought it to something close to perfection
and we shouldn't just give it up because monsieur
took enough before we gave him something as precious as
our love .And yet , there are different kinds of how to tease
a man or when and when to look like getting more determined
was the last thing we thought of , which probably is the
case and that means :slow down (or shut up but that's
almost the same , should be thrown overboard and out of
the way).We are women and it is our right to tease.I know
that some men would love to roar and jump at us for hearing
just this one sentence .Let him take some pressure every
now and again and turn into a hunter or tiger so he can feel
like a man and not just show off the crown jewels
.
You will sense when there are days for something wild , teasing
, wrestling, tender and also gentle , intense
love (and this mostly means NO TEASING!)he was just willing
to give one rib to get a mate because he felt lonely ? Ok , Sir
.But if he has the nerve to say something about his woman
fka rib he just is a dummy just like letting you take the blame
back when he took a bite from the apple and all that.He knew
it was a nono , right ? Now here we go again .And I read that
a girl has a boy who almost makes her feel guilty about being
wet but he could be close to thrown out of paradise , I wonder
what he would say if he got to hear that there might be something
available in a store to help men who can't handle a wet..., well
something like that but I am sure you know what I mean .Don't
allow him to blame you for his lack of experience .There
are men who would light a candle every day if their women
were a bit more moist .And if he spoils it for you each time
by looking as if he bit into a lemon let him look into the net
to find out how he can help himself and that way make it good
for both of you .No more blaming it on something completely
normal .Would you please try to help him comprehend that?
For some reason that seems to be up to us too.But whattheheck...as
long as it works ......
Good luck .Tinka, 6/24/04