Take it as it comes
I tried putting in my profile that if a man or woman contacts
me and says something stupid or rude like, Nice tits, or
Wanna fuck, that they stand a good chance of being ignored.
That was my disclaimer. If any that I ignored got upset,
that's their problem. There's no need for anyone
to be rude, especially when it's in someone's
profile that they don't like it. I like intelligent
men and women and it's in my pro. Intelligence means
conversation. It all comes down to everyone reading people's
profiles. If you're a standard member and can't
view them, for those of us who require you read our profile
first, that's your problem. Just because you're
not willing or able to pay to be a premium member does not
mean I have to spend 15 minutes telling you everything I
already took a half hour to put into my profile. For the other
people who did read my profile and still ignored my likes,
if you get ignored, oh well. I have in it that I don't
want contacted by anyone younger than 28 or over 42. I still
get 21 year old guys and girls and 55 year old men bothering
me. I don't respond to them. Get over it. If you don't
pay attention to someone's profile, expect the worst.
However, I'm not saying I haven't met some very
nice men on here. I have. (Unfortunately, I haven't
talked to very many women.) I've even met with a couple
or men and those meetings went pretty well. ;) And I've
had some really good conversations on here.
And those good
conversations started out with something nice like, Hi,
how you doing today, or Hey, nice pics, wanna chat? Or even,
Nice tits, wanna chat? Something that denotes there may
be a real conversation and not just a cyber session. If you're
a jerk, you'll get treated the way you deserve to get
treated. If you're a nice guy with a brain who's
real horny and a great fuck (afterall, isn't sex why
we're all here?), you'll get treated the way you
deserve to get treated, also. :P And, in response to men
who don't like to be ingnored in emails, personally,
I respond to the men who write real messages, whether I'm
interested or not. The ones who write one line emails get
completely ignored! If you want to contact someone and
have them take the time to reply, you better damn-well give
them something to reply to. Most women will take a one sentence
message as an indication of long a man is willing to spend
on her in bed or in conversation. You need to put some effort
into it! Don't forget that for us women, sex is very
cerebral! The sooner a man realizes this and accepts it,
the sooner he'll start getting some good pussy. LOL
Also, please please PLEASE don't write us and complain
about your life. We can't do anything about all the
problems you have and how lonely you've been and how
long it's been since you've gotten laid. Messages
like that are exactly why you're alone.